My husband and I watched â€œThe Social Dilemmaâ€ on Netflix last weekend. Itâ€™s a documentary about the effects of social media, and more importantly information capitalism, on society and how itâ€™s basically ripping apart our social construct. The focus of â€œThe Social Dilemmaâ€ is on Facebook, but it also talks about other platforms such as Twitter and Instagram and addresses the major issues around Google.
After watching â€œThe Social Dilemmaâ€, Earl took Facebook and Facebook Messenger off of his phone. I had done the same months ago, but had recently put it back on, albeit sandboxed to the best of my ability so that it wouldnâ€™t have access to my location or contact data or push notifications or anything.
I need to follow the lead of my husband. He is a very smart man. I removed Facebook and Facebook Messenger from my phone this morning. Again.
I decided to go a step further and remove Facebook from my iPad. Before doing so, I posted the photo above without a caption. I doubt anyone will notice.
Aside from the manipulation and raping of personal information that is inherent to Facebookâ€™s business model, I came to realize that Facebook has pushed too much information about my family and friends in my direction. Last night I had a cousin push a fake video edited to make Joe Biden look like he was barely coherent to her husband and for some reason Facebook felt I needed to see that interaction. Seeing activity like this has caused me to question the moral foundation of too many friends and members of my family. Fake video aside, there have been many comments about Joe Bidenâ€™s stuttering. How many of the folks making fun of Joe have made fun of me behind my back? Why would I want to associate with people that take delight in making fun of people? Why would I allow myself to get sucked into that sinking vortex of mockery and find myself doing the same thing?
I think the main reason for removing Facebook from my devices (again) is itâ€™s battering my soul and damaging the good memories I have of people. Your politics and beliefs shouldnâ€™t be my business, as long as youâ€™re not out to reduce my standing as a citizen based on my sexual orientation. I want people in my life that I know would have my back in a tough situation.
The dialog on Facebook has shown me I canâ€™t trust many of the folks I call â€œfriendsâ€. This makes me sad.
And I donâ€™t want to be sad anymore.